Finally, he would have to be gentle with my breasts, end of story. Not exactly pillow talk, but to my surprise this sweet, southern man — a man with a concealed carry gun license and a tackle box on the backseat — was completely fine with all of it. Turns out, his mom had breastfed him and all six of his siblings. It’s the healthiest.” It was my turn to be shocked. Without getting into any juicy details, I’ll just say that I definitely enjoyed myself.
One offered me a ride back to the campus (I didn't own a car then) one night after choir rehearsal since it was raining and my campus was about 4 miles away.
We sat in her car waiting for the rain to let up some (her suggestion) and while we talked, she kept putting her hand on my leg.
Before I got pregnant, I would have thought that becoming a mom would have made things much more difficult; but because I am braver, the intimidating parts — even really sensitive subjects — don’t seem so harrowing.
I mean, I gave birth, what’s the big deal about asking a guy out or using Tinder or being upfront about my physical boundaries?
I wanted to get the really big deal breakers about myself out on the table so that I wouldn’t have to awkwardly or defensively say them out loud on a first date.
I also wanted to weed out the men who wouldn’t be cool with those things, and I wanted to demonstrate that I have a sense of humor.It’s definitely easier now to just dive in, and because the stakes of a long-term relationship are higher, I’m less likely to stick around too long for a guy who isn’t right for me. In these episodes she discusses life as a single chick, life as a single mother chick and life as a single mother actress chick in Hollywood getting her groove on. and all other things current, super cool and important.And here’s the thing: I was most nervous about how to talk about sex and breastfeeding with a new guy I wanted to sleep with. Another thing is, I can’t be feeling all insecure about leaking milk.He would have to just deal with that if it happened and not say anything.Jim ended up being kind of boring in person — perfectly polite, a gentleman, but, I just didn’t feel any chemistry. Despite some big differences between us, like our politics for one thing, and his dirty sense of humor, I instantly liked him.