At best, what lesbians do is foreplay that can never reach completion on its own.
Well first order of business is a pressing matter that several readers have written to me about. It goes a little like this: Straight woman, married with children meets and falls head over heels for a lesbian.
Straighty leaves her hetero life for her gay honey, hoping to live happily ever after.
Because when you choose to go after that woman, as great as she may be, you also choose to be in the lives of her children as well.
You are not only breaking her heart when you flake out, you are also potentially breaking theirs.
For this reason, lesbian sex has become a cultural marker, a stand-in, for the question “What actually counts as sex? There are many ways people, including straight people, have and enjoy sex.
Lesbians do not need a penis to have penetrative sex.
Does she go running back to her hubby and life as a man’s wife? She stands her ground and tries to convince her lesbian love that she is gay, was maybe always was gay but has just recently realized it.
Is it fair of the Gay Girl to pull her away from her straight life only to leave her once she does? I think that all these ladies should cut their losses and move on. It’s a blessing that you’ve realized you’re gay and that you’ve come out of the closet.
Is the Gay Girl only using that as an excuse to get out of a relationship she wasn’t that into to begin with? And I’m pretty sure at least some of you of guilty of doing this too, but tell us why you did it? Everyone’s first love is the hardest to get over, it may even be twice as hard with your first lesbian love. There are plenty of lesbians in the sea that won’t high tail it out of there at the first sign of commitment.