Sadly I hit it off with both of them big-time at the beginning and they were both hot but turned out to be psycho.
Be wary if a girl will not give you a pic beforehand, this usually means she's bunk. Anyways, I just broke up with a girl that I met online (I did the dumping) and I seriously doubt if a LTR can exist from meeting online, but I would love to hear any success stories =) By the way, the best success I found with meeting girls online was joining a local message board devoted to some way of life. Some of my friends didn't know I have MSN, since I use it for Diplomacy games (not for communication).
ALSO, please remember that a girl may appear to have a real wicked face, but if you don't see the rest of the body - you DONT know what you're getting into! I was into Raves/Rave Culture for a while, and I found a few local boards where I met a LOT of people - and it's usually more of a comfortable atmosphere, and the success rate is much higher than marketing yourself on one of those date websites. I pretended I was this chick(10)he met at a party when he was drunk (he does that a lot).
One thing I learned the hard way which has been posted and which would SEEM obvious is..a pic of her.
With Christmas now behind us, the countdown to the new year has officially begun.
Asking her to describe her weight/height is ESSENTIAL and shouldn't be passed up. We're always going to have a nice backup in case something doesn't work out. If you're into martial arts, check out some martial art mb's. So, being the drunkard he was, he believed me, and got hooked.
Same thing applies online, always have at least 5 girls on the go - if a few don't work out, no big deal =) If things are going really well with a girl and you decide to meet, but you KEEP getting blown off when it comes time to meet - put her on ignore for a while, if she's really interested in you she will attempt to get in touch with you - if not she's just a playette - and YES they DO exist on the net, and they can be just as deceptive. If your into clubbing, there's lots of local mb's dedicated to the night scene. Sent him a pic of a friend of mine, and he eventually agreed to meet me at city central. But I do know a friend of mine saw him hanging around city central - then came back half an hour later and saw him still there.I thought it would blow over but when she was ripping me even worse two days later, I told her that a 28-yr old woman should not have her mother running her dating life and it's time for me to go. The most recent girl I met was probably a 6 and had major insecurities. They would state that they are "slightly curved." What a bunch of bull****! Alright, now that I'm done delivering my tantrum, I agree with Swat that we should look at the online dating as a pool of potential phone numbers. When they asked for a pic he would refrain at first..when the insisted..would finally "give in" and send them a pic of some model. And what Swat said about your intial meeting was right on the money. Even though you've talked through the net and phone you've never actually met. Just make sure you realize what type of girl she is beforehand. It used to be hard as hell for me to meet a girl from online. This girl might have been part italian,latina,hawaiin and whatever she was claimin,but i knew there was somethin different with her and her mom.That would really get them asking all kinds of stuff..act like major AFCs. And talking with someone is much differnt than being on the net. It will put you both at ease and the next thing you know, you'll have a great time. I've found that if the girl looks like a slut in her pictures, she probably is. Play your cards right and you'll have sex with her on the 1st date, 2nd at latest. Cause you'll probably get burned if you're looking for a LTR with a girl like that. Her mom wasn't Half hawaiin,she looked like she was from east africa.After a while she showed her insecurity and every date started to end with "please don't dump me, it would hurt so bad, I worry about it so much." We agreed to a mutual breakup after 3 months. By the way, both of those girls responded to my ad.Girl #2: Very pretty, hot body (was a personal trainer for a while), tall, straight natural blonde hair and blue eyes, perfect breasts and ass. I've found that trying to email the girls who have ads is a waste of time. ------------------I danced till midnight when the sky turned black, It is hard to dance with the Devil on your back.Don't get too close too fast No matter how comfortable it may seem online, you cannot replicate what you would have if you were face to face. The Meeting The meeting WILL be awkward, even if you have spent the last 2 months talking on the phone every night, and sent numerous ICQ/MSN messages. t because there was no need to (no expectations, only as "friends").